What you may be noticing

Phones & online life

First phones, screen rules, and what they are doing in there.

What may be happening: The rules are far easier to write before the phone arrives than after — and the clause that matters most is what happens when they bring you a problem from it.

Where Wavelength covers it

The Growing-Together ConversationThe core guide for staying the person your child still comes to from 8 to 14. Word-for-word scripts, checklists and decision trees for the changing body — breast buds, periods, wet dreams, erections — and for phones, friendships, privacy, consent, and repairing a conversation that went wrong.Specialty EditionsFor the families the core guide can't fully cover, so no child's situation becomes the one you can't talk about: neurodivergent kids, the age-by-age plan, briefing grandparents, coaches and the other house, the phone they already have, and the first exposure talk (a child's first contact with pornography). Two Homes, the split-household edition, is the sixth.Family Tech AgreementThe phone agreement your family signs before the phone arrives — so the day a nude-photo request or a porn video lands, your child brings it to you instead of hiding it.

Start with Stay Connected

Stay Connected is the foundation for these years — what may be happening, what to do, and the words to say. Some of the pages above are in Stay Connected: Complete, which adds field guides and tools for the situations that come next; if you start with Stay Connected, Complete costs you only the difference.

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